An amazing person once told me… ” Beautiful relationships are not planned… They are God’s gift! “ And it is true…. Unplanned things are always beautiful… People come into your life as random beings but soon they occupy the largest and most special part in your life….! Sometimes as labelled relationships & sometimes as memories… The endings may turn out bitter or sweet but those moments are always to be cherished! So be hopeful & just go with the flow! Learn to accept & allow life to take wherever it’s meant to be …. Don’t resist!
How many of us, say that to ourselves and actually mean it? How many times have you said that to yourself! And treat yourself the way you would treat the person whom you love the most!
Make it a practice to do so! Love yourself for your wins & losses, for your strengths & weaknesses, for everything you were, you are and you ever will be!
Just Love yourself more, more than you did yesterday! [also make sure that you don’t love only yourself, love everything & everyone for what/how they are] And don’t mistake love over attachment!
We always need something or someone to keep us distracted. It might be work, or friends or family or books, music or television or social media anything at all except sitting alone!
We are scared to sit alone with our thoughts. “oh they could make me mad”, no they don’t! Those are emotions that you already have, and you are not able to handle it because you never tried to understand it. Instead we shove it offf in the closet and promise to never open again. And even when it comes we have temporary fixes which might work just fine!
Instead of looking outside, try looking inside for a change. Your thoughts and emotions aren’t you, but they are definitely indicators to help you understand your needs and well…. Yourself tooo!
You cannot heal yourself from the pain if you don’t do the dirty work.
When we start a friendship or any new relationship for that matter , we try and do everything to understand each other very well. But we never really use the same for ourselves!
Start the journey of self love today. Be with yourself, watch your thoughts, understand their roots! Meditate, Atleast for a few minutes twice a day!Try Journaling , take nature walks!
Make yourself your friend, spend enough time. Let the relationship flourish. Let the love cherish…..!
Who else can be you other than yourself! You cannot be same as another person in every possible aspect just like how no one else can be you in every possible aspect!
All you have to do in this life is to be your authentic self! Grow to be kind, grow to loving, grow to be courageous, grow to be strong, GROW TO BE YOU! Not your past “you” who was held with other’s imposed views but the present “you” who’s evolving to be the future “you” !
We tend to see better selves of others and compare it with the worst self of ours! How is that comparison any justified? You keep running to fulfill other’s persona of yourself, what good is that gonna do to you?
Who gets to choose , how you wanna evolve or become? You get to choose that! Do it listening to your inner self not by listening to other’s idea of perfection and “that’s good for you” kind of advice!
Evolve to be the best and authentic version of yourself!
If nobody has ever said that to YOU , no worries the message is already here! Love yourself, your every love story starts with YOU nd let me tell YOU something more, there is no break up here! YOU will get back the love YOU are providing! YOU are both at the receiving end and the giving end! Learn to accept YOU … Admire YOU … let go of the false ideologies nd LOVE YOURSELF LIKE NO ONE ELSE DOES! This is also the key to extend love to others, you will learn to accept people for how they are as such! That’s the kind of love we need
