A watching candle!

When you light a candle ο•―to let peace flow in, you can’t keep worrying about the candle getting smaller. It is inevitable! ο˜ο˜…
Similarly, when you are with the people you love, enjoy being with them instead of worrying about the very little time you have with them!

@minishells

Unplanned bitter & sweet!

An amazing person once told me…
” Beautiful relationships are not planned… They are God’s gift! “
And it is true…. Unplanned things are always beautiful… People come into your life as random beings but soon they occupy the largest and most special part in your life….! Sometimes as labelled relationships & sometimes as memories… The endings may turn out bitter or sweet but those moments are always to be cherished!
So be hopeful & just go with the flow! Learn to accept & allow life to take wherever it’s meant to be …. Don’t resist!

~lesh

What now?

Only the present is for you right now! The future is in the hands of your future you!

The more you think about past or the future, you forget the one thing you could do that is being present!

There’s a belief of an eternal now, where the past, present, and the future happens simultaneously!

You are taking over as your past or future self instead of being the present self! You are loosing everything that you could do now!

I’m not saying not to plan anything or to not revisit your memories, Do it to enjoy it not to escape from the present!

Accept the present and be grateful for everything! Oooh it’s not at all easy, but if we could slowly learn the art of enjoying the present, then your present self can live truely!

What can you do now, is what that matters the most!

@minishells

Peace within chaos!

We keep creating the road to peace, but unfortunately we never reach it. Because peace is not having a life where you don’t have any problems.

Just like happiness, it stays where you let it stay, instead of searching for it somewhere else!

If you think you are gonna have peace, when all your problems are over, then possibly your life would be over tooo!

Feeling joy as a momentary relief only to transition into the next phase of worry is not peace! Even with all your problems, you feel joy for being alive that’s peace!

In simple terms, Being in the present is the only door to peace!

@minishells

Being with yourself!

We always need something or someone to keep us distracted. It might be work, or friends or family or books, music or television or social media anything at all except sitting alone!

We are scared to sit alone with our thoughts. “oh they could make me mad”, no they don’t! Those are emotions that you already have, and you are not able to handle it because you never tried to understand it. Instead we shove it offf in the closet and promise to never open again. And even when it comes we have temporary fixes which might work just fine!

Instead of looking outside, try looking inside for a change. Your thoughts and emotions aren’t you, but they are definitely indicators to help you understand your needs and well…. Yourself tooo!

You cannot heal yourself from the pain if you don’t do the dirty work.

When we start a friendship or any new relationship for that matter , we try and do everything to understand each other very well. But we never really use the same for ourselves!

Start the journey of self love today. Be with yourself, watch your thoughts, understand their roots! Meditate, Atleast for a few minutes twice a day!Try Journaling , take nature walks!

Make yourself your friend, spend enough time. Let the relationship flourish. Let the love cherish…..!

Be your friend!

@minishells

Why isn’t it enough?

We could have all the material things we want, still we might feel lost. Because we try to create our identity with materials. This will never fulfill the emptiness within ourselves!

Feeling satisfied depends on our mindset. Even with all the comfortabilities in the world if you can’t feel joy, what’s the use of all that isn’t it?

Choose to be grateful, choose joy, choose the now, choose the present!πŸ˜‡ Choose to enjoy what you have! Then if you feel the need you can always want more! If you know what I mean 😝😝

@minishells