#beingwithyourself – Minishells

Enjoy being bored!

We procrastinate because we find all other things more enjoyable!

So the only way to survive and succeed in this world, is by learning to enjoy and embrace being bored!

Enjoy being alone! Spend time all by your self, without having a phone to escape boredom, without having people to mindlessly complain or gossip about.

Enjoy failing….enjoy making mistakes….Enjoy learning!

Enjoy being behind… Enjoy being not all figured out…not having everything figured out means, you still have a chance to get into new adventures….Enjoy the different colours and flavours of life

Enjoy the path… Enjoy the uncertainities… Embrace and accept life and everything in it… For how it is… And not how you want it to be!

@lesh

Undefinable mystery

For an woman, beauty is not only defined by her appearance, but by her character…

The way she behaves, the love and care that she shows towards others, the kindness, the serenity in her smile!

Beyond those feminine things, even the masculine things she expresses is attractive…

The boldness in her voice, the passion in her heart, the fiercesomeness to question the rules and the braveness to change the world!

You cannot fit a single definition for all…Each one is an unique combination of fire and ice! So just be yourself!

She leads to conquer the world….. With fire in her heart, love in her soul and a smile in her face!

And she is an indefinable mystery!

~lesh

Do you?

How many of us, say that to ourselves and actually mean it? How many times have you said that to yourself! And treat yourself the way you would treat the person whom you love the most!

Make it a practice to do so! Love yourself for your wins & losses, for your strengths & weaknesses, for everything you were, you are and you ever will be!

Just Love yourself more, more than you did yesterday! [also make sure that you don’t love only yourself, love everything & everyone for what/how they are] And don’t mistake love over attachment!

@minishells

Arrange your dominos!

You remember that thing you were so longing to do, start doing it! This is the sign! And for those who have already started it, keep doing it!

I know that feel, it might seem stupid, or as if it’s so little, you might be thinking “what difference is it gonna make?” oh! Trust me, it makes a huge difference! It might seem so small now, but slowly it will grow, more importantly you will grow with it tooo! And your growth [however small it might seem] will be an inspiration for others, to start living their dreams or to start loving their life [or themselves]!

Start arranging your dominos now! Let it hit ’em alll!

@minishells

Changing yourself!

How often do we complain about the world not being fair or that it’s not changing for the good! But what are we really doing to improve ourselves!

Our environment, culture, practices & habits have a huge influence upon us! But when we don’t feel aligned with it, instead of sticking to the old patterns, try to be more aware and start making those changes which you are longing to make!

We can change the world only by changing ourselves and by acting as influencers!

We have only ourselves to compete, to push and to challenge to be our own better selves! Are you becoming a better person than before that’s all is important!When everyone tries to become their own better selves, the world becomes better tooo!

@minishells

Simple things #1

Welcoming July with love!

Oh Iam not talking only about romantic relationships here! It’s about every connection we have with others!

If you love them, express it. If you are not comfortable with their actions or behavior tell them! Apologize, if you have hurt them. It need not be in words, it could be even a small gesture, probably a hug! People aren’t gonna be here forever! The moments are gonna go, the people are gonna go, you are gonna go! The only thing we have is the present, so don’t spoil it by “not living”. You might not get another chance, so just go for it! Spill whatever you wanna share to them!

And remember you need not be mean or rude even if you are upset! Convey your every message with love!

@minishells

Our experiences!

What brings you your experiences is a mystery isn’t it! What if it’s all from our thoughts?

If you want courage, life is going to throw you hard situations to grow!

If you want to be satisfied, then probably you won’t get everything you want so that you can be satisfied with what you have! It’s tricky business here! No one has the exact rule book, cause there isn’t one!

@minishells

Simple things!

When you start noticing the simple gifts in life and feel grateful for it, the whole life becomes a gift in itself!

Everything is a miracle! The air we breathe, the food, the water, the love we receive, the experiences…. Everything!

But often we are so used to it as a part of life that we take it for granted! Once we learn to observe and appreciate those simple things in life, it blossoms into so much more! Just try it!

@minishells

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Being with yourself!

We always need something or someone to keep us distracted. It might be work, or friends or family or books, music or television or social media anything at all except sitting alone!

We are scared to sit alone with our thoughts. “oh they could make me mad”, no they don’t! Those are emotions that you already have, and you are not able to handle it because you never tried to understand it. Instead we shove it offf in the closet and promise to never open again. And even when it comes we have temporary fixes which might work just fine!

Instead of looking outside, try looking inside for a change. Your thoughts and emotions aren’t you, but they are definitely indicators to help you understand your needs and well…. Yourself tooo!

You cannot heal yourself from the pain if you don’t do the dirty work.

When we start a friendship or any new relationship for that matter , we try and do everything to understand each other very well. But we never really use the same for ourselves!

Start the journey of self love today. Be with yourself, watch your thoughts, understand their roots! Meditate, Atleast for a few minutes twice a day!Try Journaling , take nature walks!

Make yourself your friend, spend enough time. Let the relationship flourish. Let the love cherish…..!

Be your friend!

@minishells