An amazing person once told me… ” Beautiful relationships are not planned… They are God’s gift! “ And it is true…. Unplanned things are always beautiful… People come into your life as random beings but soon they occupy the largest and most special part in your life….! Sometimes as labelled relationships & sometimes as memories… The endings may turn out bitter or sweet but those moments are always to be cherished! So be hopeful & just go with the flow! Learn to accept & allow life to take wherever it’s meant to be …. Don’t resist!
How many of us, say that to ourselves and actually mean it? How many times have you said that to yourself! And treat yourself the way you would treat the person whom you love the most!
Make it a practice to do so! Love yourself for your wins & losses, for your strengths & weaknesses, for everything you were, you are and you ever will be!
Just Love yourself more, more than you did yesterday! [also make sure that you don’t love only yourself, love everything & everyone for what/how they are] And don’t mistake love over attachment!
Oh Iam not talking only about romantic relationships here! It’s about every connection we have with others!
If you love them, express it. If you are not comfortable with their actions or behavior tell them! Apologize, if you have hurt them. It need not be in words, it could be even a small gesture, probably a hug! People aren’t gonna be here forever! The moments are gonna go, the people are gonna go, you are gonna go! The only thing we have is the present, so don’t spoil it by “not living”. You might not get another chance, so just go for it! Spill whatever you wanna share to them!
And remember you need not be mean or rude even if you are upset! Convey your every message with love!
Easy or hard…. It’s individualistic . It depends on our perspective towards life
Life makes you strong, when you open yourself to the happenings. Believe that it’s there to help you grow.
Life isn’t there to take revenge on you. We have developed a revenge or punishment aspect to karma. No it isn’t it! Life doesn’t punish you. It helps you to observe your actions and values. It reflects back your thoughts to let you see it in a different perspective. To correct what you may now feel as mistakes, which you couldn’t realise when you did it!
It helps us to become a better person, who’s understanding, caring, kind, intelligent & compassionate in our own ways
I often find myself complaining about people who complain about others, only to realize that I’m doing the same! I bet that happens for all of us, sometimes we are just not aware of it yet!
“I am not like them” it’s easy to think that way. But what if you were born in a different place, for different parents with different circumstances and background, how would you have turned out to be? Did you think about that possibility yet?
” I would never make that mistake, I am better than others, it’s all our ego talking “
When we judge others we judge ourselves tooo. So learn to be compassionate… Loving and kind!