I know this is not the exact definition… But i guess it is sufficient, isn’t it? Sometimes it all feels as facade, but sometimes that’s what gives us hope! It’s all individualistic….opinion! No religion or belief is superior from the other! God or no god, it’s all your choice to make! And don’t forget to do your own investigation before you come to any conclusion.
Having dreams, well everyone knew to dream when they were young. We dreamt of several fantasies like angels, fairies, unicorns and what not? But somehow when we started growing up, we stopped dreaming, well to be precise we stopped believing that our dreams could come true. The practicality of life hit us.
There will be thousands of people telling you that these dreams are not gonna turn into reality. Don’t fall prey for others’ opinions of limitations. Because there have been several dreams that have been brought into reality only by those people who had the courage to believe in their dreams, even when the world chose not to.
We need those kind of people, who can bring unimaginable things to life. So take this as a que and chase those dreams like it is waiting for you to conquer. Let the world blabber whatever it wants to. Let it discourage you, let it demean you, let it not believe in you. None of it is your business.
Don’t do it to prove it to anyone, don’t do it to even prove to yourself, but do it because that’s your dream and you can’t let it go. For the ambitious, their dreams are their lover. You cannot lose your love of your life just because you think that your family will be against it, similarly never lose your dream that has been living in your mind for years. Because only you know how deep it has rooted in your soul.
I’m talking about those dreams that you cannot live without, that you know is worth it, that doesn’t allow you to sleep, that comes to your mind the moment you think about your passion or your future.
So be ambitious, go for it! It might seem unattainable now, but when you start believing in it, everything will fall into place. Now it’s time to take actions. One step at a time, however small it might seem, just start doing it. and the Universe will do the rest of the work.
“Sometimes it’s hard to grasp why the answers to the present lie in the past. A simple analogy might be helpful; a leading psychiatrist in the field of sexual abuse once told me she had, in thirty years of extensive work with pedophiles, never met one who hadn’t himself been abused as a child. This doesn’t mean that all abused children go on to become abusers, but it is impossible for someone who was not abused to become an abuser. As Winnicott puts it “A BABY CANNOT HATE THE MOTHER, WITHOUT THE MOTHER FIRST HATING THE BABY”
No one is born evil. As babies, we are innocent, sponges, blank slates, with only the most basic needs present; to eat, shit, love and be loved. But something goes wrong depending on the circumstances into which we are born and the house in which we grow up.”
As said here, not everyone ends up evil even with a not so comforting environment. Make that choice for yourself. You need not hurt others just because you were hurt by other people!
Environment might decide your circumstances but you can definitely control how you choose to consider the experiences! Changing our attitude from feeling victimized to taking control of our life, we shift our focus on the growth rather than the destruction caused!
What brings you your experiences is a mystery isn’t it! What if it’s all from our thoughts?
If you want courage, life is going to throw you hard situations to grow!
If you want to be satisfied, then probably you won’t get everything you want so that you can be satisfied with what you have! It’s tricky business here! No one has the exact rule book, cause there isn’t one!
It’s the photo of the same object under the same light with a mere adjustment in the position. And it gives two different colors.
Colour of an object is only the wavelength of light it reflects! It’s just a mere illusion nd nothing more!
Nothing is ugly in itself, the difference lies in the way we look at things, the way we perceive the information, under which light we observe it, the filters and dust through which we see ….. together brings out the appearance of everything!
We could have all the material things we want, still we might feel lost. Because we try to create our identity with materials. This will never fulfill the emptiness within ourselves!
Feeling satisfied depends on our mindset. Even with all the comfortabilities in the world if you can’t feel joy, what’s the use of all that isn’t it?
Choose to be grateful, choose joy, choose the now, choose the present!😇 Choose to enjoy what you have! Then if you feel the need you can always want more! If you know what I mean 😝😝
Who else can be you other than yourself! You cannot be same as another person in every possible aspect just like how no one else can be you in every possible aspect!
All you have to do in this life is to be your authentic self! Grow to be kind, grow to loving, grow to be courageous, grow to be strong, GROW TO BE YOU! Not your past “you” who was held with other’s imposed views but the present “you” who’s evolving to be the future “you” !
We tend to see better selves of others and compare it with the worst self of ours! How is that comparison any justified? You keep running to fulfill other’s persona of yourself, what good is that gonna do to you?
Who gets to choose , how you wanna evolve or become? You get to choose that! Do it listening to your inner self not by listening to other’s idea of perfection and “that’s good for you” kind of advice!
Evolve to be the best and authentic version of yourself!