#experiences – Minishells

Enjoy being bored!

We procrastinate because we find all other things more enjoyable!

So the only way to survive and succeed in this world, is by learning to enjoy and embrace being bored!

Enjoy being alone! Spend time all by your self, without having a phone to escape boredom, without having people to mindlessly complain or gossip about.

Enjoy failing….enjoy making mistakes….Enjoy learning!

Enjoy being behind… Enjoy being not all figured out…not having everything figured out means, you still have a chance to get into new adventures….Enjoy the different colours and flavours of life

Enjoy the path… Enjoy the uncertainities… Embrace and accept life and everything in it… For how it is… And not how you want it to be!

@lesh

No one is born evil!

This is a para from the book

THE SILENT PATIENT

BY ALEX MICHAELIDES

“Sometimes it’s hard to grasp why the answers to the present lie in the past. A simple analogy might be helpful; a leading psychiatrist in the field of sexual abuse once told me she had, in thirty years of extensive work with pedophiles, never met one who hadn’t himself been abused as a child. This doesn’t mean that all abused children go on to become abusers, but it is impossible for someone who was not abused to become an abuser. As Winnicott puts it “A BABY CANNOT HATE THE MOTHER, WITHOUT THE MOTHER FIRST HATING THE BABY”

No one is born evil. As babies, we are innocent, sponges, blank slates, with only the most basic needs present; to eat, shit, love and be loved. But something goes wrong depending on the circumstances into which we are born and the house in which we grow up.”

As said here, not everyone ends up evil even with a not so comforting environment. Make that choice for yourself. You need not hurt others just because you were hurt by other people!

Environment might decide your circumstances but you can definitely control how you choose to consider the experiences! Changing our attitude from feeling victimized to taking control of our life, we shift our focus on the growth rather than the destruction caused!

@minishells

“Hey, you were the one asking for it!”

A thousand things might or might not happen if you don’t get something! And the more you think about those possibilities, the more it comes true! Life be like “hey you were the one asking for it!”

So start focusing on how you could do something ! Instead of worrying about the results, that may or may not come!

Focus more on how you could achieve something and why you want or need that!

Hey I’m not asking you to not prepare for the worse! Do it if you want to! Just don’t add the fear tag to it! It will all end up great! Trust the bigger picture! Afterall hope is what we can all have!

@minishells

Our experiences!

What brings you your experiences is a mystery isn’t it! What if it’s all from our thoughts?

If you want courage, life is going to throw you hard situations to grow!

If you want to be satisfied, then probably you won’t get everything you want so that you can be satisfied with what you have! It’s tricky business here! No one has the exact rule book, cause there isn’t one!

@minishells